OK, you point to a wider use of the 'goldlock's principle' than I had seen, or noted. So I traced through the wikipedia treatments of the use of this term, and 'big history' itself. (This last is somewhat repetitive, but the terminology keeps evolving, so that is fun in and of itself.)
My own versions of order building is parallel with much if not most of the conventional themes of big history, with particular reference to and use of Chaisson's work. His thinking certainly underlies, or parallels, mine, and has for some decades.
One way, it seems to me, of exploring the parallels is to think of order building as an hierarchical combinatorial process, which proceeds through phase transitions throughout an evolving universe in decentralized, nested (one evolution inside another), probabilistically realized, stepwise way. Looked at this way, your question, or way of using the goldilocks term, is to ask where and how conditions arise for these stepwise phase transition evolutions of more-complex processes.
Drake addressed this with his stepwise, probabilistic, formula for evolving life, of course. And Chaisson follows that same track. And of course, so do I, since I don't know another way for the universe to organize itself.
So one way of proceeding is to try to follow a common theme of where and how another level of complex hierarchical ordering can evolve in a post-hoc, fact oriented way. Again, it seems to me, Drake is helpful, since he steps through suns, planets, planets with water, planets with liquids, solids and gases maintained in such phases over sufficient time to allow permuting of each basic phase and derivatives of the basic phases leading to the progressive entrainment of chemical processes which serve as the substrate of the life-level hierarchical developments.
Now if one asks what is common to all such stepwise developments of ordered systems, it seems to me, recapitulating, that one can say that the common factor is simply correlation processes, proceeding through hierarchical levels of correlation of dynamic processes. But if one strips down the logic that far, one still needs to see the sorts of benchmarks used by Drake, Chaisson and the various wikipedia discussions (which I find much better crafted than many Wikipedia discussions).
I am not sure I have been helpful to you at all. You have been helpful to me in causing me to re-review current treatments of Big History itself. But thanks for pushing the dialogue, and it is nice to have this forum where conversational exchange at least potentially leads to some refinement in the various elaborations of the dialogues or narratives.
cjp